Tuesday with Morrie

好久没一次过看完一本书了。我并不抗拒看书，只是往往提不起毅力来开始那第一步。那天逛着border时，无意间看到了【Tuesday with Morrie】这本书，反正我有时间，就坐在一旁开始看了起来。我不算是很仔细的看，但其中有些东西让我印象深刻。

心理游戏。一个人站在两人中间，把自己的身体倒下去，然后靠着前后的朋友来推以避免跌倒在地上。还记得这是一个我在中学时玩过的游戏，而那时很成功的玩这游戏的人寥寥无几。换句话来说，现在，人与人之间的信任已经幅度减低，即使只是10多岁的小孩也不例外。

Tension of opposites，一个在那本书出现很多次的字眼。Life is a series of pulls back and forth. You want to do one thing, but you are bound to do something else. Something hurts you, yet you know it shouldn't. You take certain things for granted, even when you know you should never take anything for granted. A tension of opposites, is like a pull on a rubber band. And most of us live somewhere in the middle.”

还有就是物质需求其实什么都不是。人应该多关心身边的人与事，及想尽办法贡献社会。So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-sleep, even when they are busy doing things they think are important. This is because they are doing the wrong things. The way to get meaning into life is to devote yourself to loving others, and to create or do something that gives purpose and meaning and help each other.

不过最欣赏的还是当一个老师把学生都当成朋友看待，用心的教他们。


~*开始第一步往往是最艰难的，但当第一步走出时就会发现其实并没想象中的那么难*~